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12-01-2021 07:58 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
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12-01-2021 08:01 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
Come cook with me, can do anything you want, tell me your pantry and I will help you cook a storm Clawde here loves to cook with a challenge 🪄
@Former-Member wrote:
I've been in bed all day, this is not living.
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12-01-2021 08:31 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
I heard Terri Irwin once say she wanted people to look at her and say “Steve did well marrying that woman” @Former-Member
I think that too for my h but I have failed badly this past year.
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12-01-2021 09:25 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
Pizza & a Swim sounds Good @Eve7 (I'm not a Swimmer).
A Cafe Latte (instead of Baileys) - if that's what you'd prefer.
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12-01-2021 09:51 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
Sorry @Former-Member Just one more Coffee....
My back has been caning me all day (the worst in years) - Plus bad Gut/ Tummy pain.
The combination of both pains wiped me out - I had to cancel a Coffee catchup with an old friend.
I couldn't drive there, I wasn't up to it.
This one is the Universe (or Galaxy) in a Cup....
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12-01-2021 10:24 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
Paperazzi @Eve7 @Former-Member ? ...
I just had my Post Removed - In trying to reply to you.
Even though I used your Exact Same Phrase - Which was Supposedly Okay, because you used that Word yourself.
I've had so many of my Posts suddenly Disappear (Removed) - It's not funny.
Always gives me a terrible shock, when that happens.
Then it happened again right now.
Alway at Night, when I'm Going to Bed.
Dad's Birthday was December 27th (that's a Trigger/ Grief Time).
Dad's Anniversary is coming up on March 20th (5 days after my Birthday).
Which means I've been Sad (Grief) at the time of my Birthday - Every year, for the past 5 years.
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12-01-2021 10:41 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
Sorry your dads B'day and passing dates still hit you hard. Us mere humans are just not just not wired for death 😨😞 Hang in there, crack open your life raft to ride those grief waves when they come 💛 Hard on our own 💛
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12-01-2021 10:59 PM
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12-01-2021 11:03 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
Thanks @Former-Member
I will try to Ride those Waves of Grief....
Grief Sucks.
Losing someone sucks.
Grief does not just naturally work its way through (or just happen), as many people seem to think.
Because there is so much Suppression & Denial in society- that stops Grieving.
Grief is not valued or recognised as necessary or healthy.
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12-01-2021 11:07 PM
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