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19-09-2020 09:14 PM
19-09-2020 09:14 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
well go with sleepy and have a good day tomorrow than @MDT
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19-09-2020 09:19 PM
19-09-2020 09:19 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Focusing on the future is not helpful @MDT have you tried meditation and mindfulness?
Try to bring yourself back to the present, focus on your senses touch, sight, smell and sound.
Have you tried or do mandala? It is a ancient Indian meditation, it is patterns you colour, they are intricate and it really helps you focus on the here and now.
You can download them from the net and print them.
I'm glad you caught up with friends, it must be nice to hang out again.
It has been a very long time since I socialised with friends, around 20 years.
I do miss it sometimes
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19-09-2020 09:27 PM
19-09-2020 09:27 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Another year comes by and we are here still.
Yeah I'm okay my friend.
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19-09-2020 09:27 PM
19-09-2020 09:27 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
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19-09-2020 09:34 PM
19-09-2020 09:34 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Good to hear @MDT
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19-09-2020 10:24 PM
19-09-2020 10:24 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
yeah your right @MDT it can be a wild ride sometimes.
i guess sometimes it feels like life is out of control, we need to find balance in all our lives. it is so so difficult in this modern world.
im glad you are good mate. it is raining here, so im just enjoying the smell and sound of it.
the little things in live is what i get joy out of now
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19-09-2020 10:47 PM
19-09-2020 10:47 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Having some cake now
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19-09-2020 11:08 PM
19-09-2020 11:08 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
having some cake and eating it too 🙂 that is what i like to see
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20-09-2020 04:21 AM
20-09-2020 04:21 AM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Hey @MDT ,
How was the cake? I hope you savoured it well!
I'd love to have some cake at this moment, but I guess I have to remember it is 4:18am... the sun isn't even up!
Im glad @Jacques mentioned mindfulness. I was an absolute meditation sceptic... but after persisting with it, I definitely see the benefits. I use the evidence-based, practitioner-endorsed 'Smiling Mind' app. Give it a go.
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20-09-2020 05:47 AM
20-09-2020 05:47 AM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
@MDT Hap pea birthday Hamso!!!! Have a wonderful day Love pea xxx