24-05-2025 06:19 PM
24-05-2025 06:19 PM
@Bunniekins it's kind of like intimate reiki techniques, channelling energy whilst souls are entwined with one another.
24-05-2025 06:22 PM
24-05-2025 06:22 PM
@Sparky79 o0o0o0ooo ... my Heathcliffe would be brooding, obsessive, slightly dangerous, highly sexual, but would never hurt me either physically or mentally, spiritually awakened, would be caring of my children, animal lover, with a wicked sense of humour
24-05-2025 06:23 PM
24-05-2025 06:23 PM
@Bunniekins oh that sounds like a nice Heathcliff
24-05-2025 06:24 PM
24-05-2025 06:24 PM
@Sparky79 that is beautiful
24-05-2025 06:28 PM
24-05-2025 06:28 PM
@Sparky79 yes that is what i think 😄 nobody in their right mind wants a dark side Heathcliffe!
24-05-2025 06:29 PM - edited 25-05-2025 08:30 AM
24-05-2025 06:29 PM - edited 25-05-2025 08:30 AM
@Bunniekins oh I wouldn't judge them if they did, everyone has their own preference.
24-05-2025 06:34 PM
24-05-2025 06:34 PM
@Sparky79 lol well she will probably eat those words in the future. did i tell you i was married for 23 years before my ex cheated on me when i was mentally ill with psychosis?
24-05-2025 06:40 PM - edited 25-05-2025 08:30 AM
24-05-2025 06:40 PM - edited 25-05-2025 08:30 AM
@Bunniekins Holy crap! damn that's bad, geez I know it can be hard on a partner, but you don't go doing that stuff.
24-05-2025 06:46 PM
24-05-2025 06:46 PM
@Sparky79 i had pre and post natal depression and was psychotic during that period too. i wanted to hurt myself during that period and understand how dark thoughts can go for women who are suffering your wife was lucky you were so understanding. it is no joke. people ask me if you were so sick why did you have 3 children when the depression kept getting worse and i would say that i loved my children and just thought my dark thoughts were a part of being a mother....
24-05-2025 06:53 PM - edited 25-05-2025 08:30 AM
24-05-2025 06:53 PM - edited 25-05-2025 08:30 AM
@Bunniekins That's the thing about kids, all the sleepless nights, all the bad stuff that happens early on is forgotten as they grow, I'm getting clucky because next door has a newborn and I often hear him crying during the night. Then I get all "awww", I know that when you're the parent and your running on F-all sleep, suffering from hormonal imbalances and mental health issues it's far from an "awww" moment at that time.
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