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25-02-2019 09:39 PM
25-02-2019 09:39 PM
Re: rough time
im not to sure, im kinda taking it as each day comes. things seem to change so quickly around here i barely have time to catch my breath. im not even sure about outlander time at the moment, it doesnt feel worth it.
youve had some rather busy weeks too so a quiet week might be nice. if the weathers good maybe take holly for a short walk....
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25-02-2019 09:47 PM
25-02-2019 09:47 PM
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my mother wont talk to him, i dont think she knows how to either really. she just tells me the be nicer, or change my attitude or the likes when i tell her things because with dementia he will become more sensitive and ill sound aggressive even if im not etc etc
i feel bad for talking about him like this or anyone else.
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25-02-2019 10:11 PM
25-02-2019 10:11 PM
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My posts sound rather awful even though im not meaning them to be. I dont want to ruin everything here too.
This isnt how I wanted to come back after what was suppose to be a fun weekend
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25-02-2019 10:12 PM
25-02-2019 10:12 PM
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We can talk about anything else that you want it instead of this. I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable @outlander
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25-02-2019 10:27 PM
25-02-2019 10:27 PM
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Its kinda strange he snaps at me alot and then he forget but then he will bring it up again. Its upsetting and relentless. Im really stuck between i really want to walk away from it all and no i think i should stay.
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25-02-2019 10:30 PM
25-02-2019 10:30 PM
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25-02-2019 10:45 PM
25-02-2019 10:45 PM
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Your posts are your reality hun. They are your life, and the frustrations, challenges and trials of what you have to deal with on a daily basis. They're not awful; they just are what they are. Sometimes I get frustrated as I want to come and fix things, but sometimes the one thing you need is from me and others is to listen without judgement.
You're not going to loose me. I'm going to be here for you, and for me for some time. Years probably. I need you as much as you need me. And I actually like spending time with you regardless. You're a great person to talk to, you're talented and smart, and just good to hang out with.
@outlander
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25-02-2019 11:00 PM
25-02-2019 11:00 PM
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I doubt respite will happen for a long time. I still have everyone else too along with pop. I wouldn't know what to do with myself if i didnt have to help someone else out.
Thank you for being here and @Former-Member too. My heart hurts a little less when im here talking to you guys ❤❤❤
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25-02-2019 11:01 PM
25-02-2019 11:01 PM
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Beautifully said @Sans911 .. hear .. hear. All very true @outlander . And you wont lose me either, if I have any choice in the matter. Please continue to talk here, as its so important to know you have an outlet. You have not been disrespectful about your Pop, merely telling things as they are. In my voluntary work at the nursing home I see many residents with dementia or alzhiemers. They are so hard for family to deal with. And unfortunately my Mum is definitely developing dementia too, though is in denial about it. She can hide it from some, but its becoming much more difficult for her to do so now. I hope your follow up apts with your pops GP can result in some addnl support for both your pop and for you, as his carer.
Sherry 💕
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25-02-2019 11:02 PM
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