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26-09-2016 06:38 PM
26-09-2016 06:38 PM
wrong family
Like the outsider the one that is never noticed. I just don't know where to turn. My siblings get what they want when the want it and I get nothing. If they want my things they can just take them but if I want something of these I just get in trouble. I feel that I'm just not important. I'm always pushed aside. I just don't know where to turn. Or what to do.
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26-09-2016 08:18 PM
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Re: wrong family
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26-09-2016 10:36 PM
26-09-2016 10:36 PM
Re: wrong family
As an adult, life is different. My mum and I are super close. I found out the psychological torture my dad put my sister through.
Sometimes we may not see everything that is going on in our families. That doesn't mean our pain is less real.
What about your friends? Ask your close friends what they like about you. Focus on that. Focus on what you like about yourself.
I'll bet you there is a caring, funny that your friends see
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26-09-2016 11:14 PM
26-09-2016 11:14 PM
Re: In the wrong family
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27-09-2016 09:30 PM
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27-09-2016 10:10 PM
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Re: wrong family
Not well
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27-09-2016 10:20 PM
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27-09-2016 10:33 PM
27-09-2016 10:33 PM
Re: wrong family
Headspace is a great organisation for helping those in their teens and 20's.
Your gp can also refer you to a psychologist - under medicare. I'd be lost without my psychologist to help me navigate through my tough times.
Of course you can still talk with any of us here on this forum. We are a supportive group of people. Non judgemental. Ready to help with advice - if needed - of just to have a chat and not feel so alone.
Myself, I've always been very sensitive deep down. I tried to hide it as a child and teen. But I don't anymore. It's just a part of me - the same as my brown eyes.
I'm unsure of your age. You don't need to share that if you don't want to. But if you're at school or TAFE or UNI, they have free counseling. It might be a gentle place to start.
Please keep in contact.
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27-09-2016 10:35 PM
27-09-2016 10:35 PM
Re: wrong family
Hello @natureoflife
is there anything else you want to say now?
how long have you felt like that?
Sorry about the questions you dont need to answer .. just chatting.
I felt like that a lot too.. whether I was in my biological family or not.
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28-09-2016 08:23 AM
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