My life partner has Bipolar ii

[Former-Member]

@Shaz51 

Perfectionism has a lot of links to anxiety and OCD. Mr Darcy has traits of it but it doesn't mean his work is flawless - he would be intent on finishing a job rather than taking time and finishing it well.

[Shaz51]

yes mr shaz does not have it all the time @Former-Member , confusing at times 

he would be intent on finishing a job rather than taking time and finishing it well.--- same here depending what it is 

anxiety and OCD., yes that comes into an account too 

and then other times it is a no care approach 

how is everything today xx

[Former-Member]

@Shaz51 

In limbo at the moment, we see the oncologist on Wednesday and hope to have an idea of the way forward in relation to treatment / management. 

My mind is a complete blank of what we can do to create fond memories in whatever time we will have left.

[Determined]

Thinking of you @Former-Member  as you process the path ahead. 

[outlander]

sending love and hugs @Former-Member
do the things that have meaning for you both

[Shaz51]

sending you lots of hugs @Former-Member 

[Totman]

Good evening everyone @Former-Member @Shaz51 @Faith-and-Hope @Determined @sophie1

I just wanted to say thank you for the 'supportive' responses...

Looking at the dates of posts on site your a group thats spoken to each other quite a while...bravo 

Hope you're all in good form this evening... I have  found peace on my verandah with a roast in the oven...

Take care

[Former-Member]

 @Totman new regulars are always welcome. Having input how others cope is so helpful.

Chilling on the veranda whilst the roast cooks = 👍

[Totman]

Hi Darcy @Former-Member 

My apologies in that Im still finding my way round this site... im sorry but Im very Commodore 64 in my understanding of sites and their intricacies as to how they function... 

Buggar.... on yet another hurdle... big deep breath... pull up the trousers... and work each day as you need too... give yourself latitude to feel whatever you do... its all perfectly ok... 

[Totman]

@Former-Member 

I have to admit to a beer in hand... my ears froze so im back in the warmth... wuss 😁

I have a lot of history to share... a bit like "War snd Peace" ... sorry Mr Tolstoy