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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

@Former-Member, @Former-Member  i have thought about this soo much 

and I had talked to mr shaz about the arrangement 

like @Former-Member  said the i am doing everything now , I said to mr shaz that we have done everything possible to make my mum safe but yet independent in her own home 

I think that is all we can do xx

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@Former-Memberwe would have to change a few things esp down stairs 

 

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Being independent in her own home is what my mum wants too @Shaz51 . 

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Being independent in her own home is what my mum wants too --- very true @Former-Member , my mum wants that but than she wants us to move in with her xxx

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Its an almost universal desire to remain at home independently. @Shaz51 . But it does sound as though your mum realises its not safe for her to remain at home on her own. Hence her desire for you to move in with her. To enable her to remain in her own home for as long as possible. Big decisions.

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yes big decisions @Former-Member , @Former-Member 

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i think i am ready for bed 
taken mum up to the hospital 4 times this week for redressing and checkups
I had blood tests and eye tests this week for next weeks appts
my mum is becoming sentive to things that are said , etc xxxxx
work , cleaning and mowing in between is catching up to me 
Mr shaz was on a high today , busy , busy , waiting for hime to come down xx

@Former-Member, @Former-Member , @Jacques@Adge@outlander@greenpea@Appleblossom@Owlunar@Jynx 

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@Shaz51  Hugs and hugs coming your way my sister xxxHeart

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Thank you my sister @greenpea , sending you lots of hugs too Heart

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Good morning to you @Shaz51  ... you really really need a break.  I hope this weekend can be it.  

Another busy week for you next week I see, and hopefully some good news from your specialist.

Did Mr Shaz finally come down a bit last night after being so high yesterday?

 

@greenpea  ... ahhh ... a change of profile pic ... what do have have here now?  Casper the friendly Pea by the looks of it.  Very apt and kinda cute.  Read your exchange with Zoe last night and early this morning.  Really glad Zoe was there for you .. .she is very wise.  I could add nothing ... so my apologies for remaining in the background.  Really feel for you.

 

Sherry

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