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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Gentle hugs my beautiful friend @Shaz51. I'm sitting with you,.

 

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Ohhh @Former-Member 

The first cleaning  job we had , a house minder was there this week while the owners are away and she was drinking wine at 8 am 

She kept talking to me which was ok as i supported  her while we were there 

 

When we got to the second  cleaning  job Mr shaz  was a totally mess 

He said that the morning  had put him down 

Ohh I nearly had to do everything  

After that we went to mow a lawn which we have not been  able to mow since Christmas time 

The customer  was soo happy 

But Mr shaz  felt she was not 

Then Mr shaz  brought some beer home 

My mum was upset and angry about  her day 

I brought  roast chicken  and salad for dinner which was good 

Mum only had custard for  dinner 

We were suppose to be mowing tomorrow  but the customer  has cancelled 

Mr shaz is feeling  very low all day 

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Thank you my  @Jacques , @Zoe7 @ read the message above  x

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Oh dear @Shaz51 So much on your shoulders from all angles today Hon. I do hope you can put your feet up tonight and Mr Shaz and your Mum are a little better tomorrow. You hold everyone together my sister but make sure you look after yourself too. Hugs and hugs and hugs and hugs Heart

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

I'm so sorry @Shaz51 you guys are under so so much pressure with yuour house, sounds like the stress is just too much for Mr shaz. With the cencelation maybe you and Mr shaz could have a day to just chill together

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Big hugs @Shaz51 

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Yikes @Shaz51 , hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

@Former-Member , @Eve7 , @Jacques , @Zoe7 

Just had a shower,  put the washing on the line , done the dishes 

And I said to Mr shaz  that we can have a sleep in tomorrow 

#####¥%₩#@%& says Mr shaz  

Mum is watching the  nature show 

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Mr shaz sounds very anxious, might be worth getting him to speak with a professional @Shaz51 you will burn out too, please take time to look after yourself, you look after Mr shaz amd your mum so well, but it must be at an emotional and mental cost to you, please do something nice for yourself tomorrow

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Time for a cuppa on the deck maybe @Shaz51 Smiley Very Happy

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